My travel buddy has backed out on me for our Oct 2009 trip to Paris. I was thinking of cancelling the entire trip but folks say I should go on my own.
So the questions are:
1)Is it safe for a single woman (38y.o.) to sightsee Paris by herself? I live in NYC(Bronx)so it might be similiar????
2)Are there any good organized tours I should use for all the different sights where I can possible meet people? i.e. boat tours, Versailles, around the city itself!!
Thanks for any answers you can provide this will help me decide whether I am going to go by myself. Although it sounds a little depressing not have this awesome city to share with a a friend or take pictures with while sightseeing.
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Go by yourself and enjoy. I just got back June 9 from an alone trip. Great. I got up when I wanted, did what I wanted, ate when and where I wanted and did not have to consider anyone else in the plan. I have gone many times alone and really enjoy it. If you go to Versaille, go on the RER. If you take a tour thru Paris Vision or Cityrama, you have to dance to their drum. If they say to be back at the bus a certain time, you darn well better be there or you are going to be left. I have seen it done. Just use common sense when it comes to your surroundings just like in NYC. Put your money, passport etc in a money belt. Don%26#39;t wear flashy jewelry, You can go on line to Paris Vision and Cityrama to see what they have to offer. Sometimes to meet people when you are alone, you might have to make a comment in order to stsrt a conversation etc. Both Paris Vision and Cityrama are the main tour companies. By the way, don%26#39;t give your good camera to a stranger to take your pic. Get one of those cheap throwaways and use that for that situation.
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Yes, go and have a great time doing what you want when you want.
For my 40th b-day i took myself to Europe for 2 months(London, Paris and Tuscany region). It was one of the best experiences I%26#39;ve ever had in my life. I%26#39;m under 5 ft tall and quite petite but I felt safe night and day--just use common sense. I agree with the advice on using a money belt.
I did a considerable amount of research before my trip so most days were well planned with tours and sightseeing with the help of a travel agent.
Much better to go solo than not go at all.
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Go! By ALL means you should visit Paris!
But keep in mind that certain young %26quot;frenchmen%26quot; consider eye contact to be %26quot;flirting%26quot; Keep your wits about you, don%26#39;t smile unnecessarily, and don%26#39;t make direct eye contact with shifty %26quot;gentlemen%26quot; as you wander the streets.
If possible, avoid the %26quot;places%26quot; where single women travellers here have had %26quot;difficulties%26quot;. Les Halles is one, Chatellet another, some caution about Montmatre...............
Good tours? Many here recommend Fat Tire, they offer bike/segway/walking tours of Paris. There%26#39;s many other alternatives - such as the Hop-on/Hop-off Bus, etc......
Yes, boat tours/bateaux mouche.......... a cruise of the Seine with a flute of champagne in your hand - very Parisian, and a remarkable memory.........
Paris is a remarkably safe city despite some of the warnings you will hear and are posted here - much safer than New York!
Yes, I agree, any moment in Paris is worth sharing - with ANYONE - but it is possible to enjoy a visit to the city as an individual - if you have the chance, GO!, most of us here would support you.........
Ask us more about how to do it as a single traveller!
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GO!! You might try taking a cooking course- There are half days at cooknwithclass and Magarite%26#39;s Elegant Cooking (? exact name)both of which are really very informal and the class is small and friendly. Paris Walks are great and you may meet someone but if you dont they are a great way to spend time. I too would avoid chatelet/Les Halles metro at night..I dont like the area near Gare du Nord and Est. Pigalle is also not a place I would want a hotel room.
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goodlawgirl,, I am so glad you are considering going on your own.. I have travelled on my own to London and Paris. I am a bit older then you, and I have also taken my 12 yr old dd along on one trip, and on another seperate trip my 14 yr old son. So if it is safe enough for me( and I do not live in a big city like you) and safe enough for me to feel very comfortable visiting alone with a child,, it is safe enough for anyone with a modicum of common sense.
Versailles,, do on your own.. its easy and fun to spend the time you want to see what you want. My friend I took once did not enjoy museums as much as I did and I always felt obligated to hurry along..
Fat Tires bike tour,, yes, I know what you are thinking,, LOL . I was talked into taking the FT Night bike tour 2 yrs ago when I took a friend to Paris.. I hadn%26#39;t been on a bike for like 20 yrs.. and I am not a fitness person really,, LOL , but she wanted to do a bike tour so bad,, and she offered to pay.. so.. we did it and it was a hoot. There were a few solos on our tour too.
I also go on another website that is quite social,, and I know a bunch of the ladies are going solo this fall,, and plan to meet for drinks and dinners etc You could go and check out the forum . There are serveral posters from here that also post there. Its Our Paris Variations on a Theme( yes long name I know, LOL )
I will be going solo again in less then 4 weeks, and I will be meeting up with a poster from this forum for a lunch, and a daytrip.. its a fun way to meet people without any big obligations. Last year my dd and I met a lady and her dd in Paris.. through a different travel forum, but still, we spent a nice afternoon together and the girls had someone to play with at the playground in Tuilleries..
Anyways,,, continue browsing the forums,, you will see many people choose to go solo for various reasons,, and enjoy it. I am married with children ,, but we have a situation at home that requires one parent to be around all the time.. so for some holidays we go seperately,, but of course we still do %26quot;family %26quot; trips. Other ladies have hubbys that work and can%26#39;t get away,,, or they themselves work and add extra time onto their business trips to enjoy themselves.. many many reasons.
Some have friends back out on plans,,,,LOL
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Definitely go. I%26#39;ve traveled to Paris several times on my own by choice. Believe it or not, it%26#39;s fun sometimes. You can eat when and where you want, go where you want and stay there as long as you like once you get there. It%26#39;s great.
I know it%26#39;s disappointing when a friend backs out on traveling plans, but think of it as just another opportunity. You%26#39;ll be glad you went (and regret it if you don%26#39;t). Happy travels!
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Do go. Coming from NY you won%26#39;t have any safety problems in Paris.
Walking tours are a great way to see sights, meet people, and don%26#39;t cost a bundle.
Paris Walks is very affordable and informal:
www.paris-walks.com
Contex Travel is more upscale:
www.contexttravel.com
Both companies have a wide range of tours (both outside and in museums).
Have fun
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Go by yourself, you will enjoy it even more!
Here are my suggestions for meeting up with other travelers:
1. Attend church services
2. Have a morning coffee at Starbucks
3. Go to the Jim Haynes dinner on Sunday evenings
4. About a week or two before you go, put up a post on TA seeing if anyone else wants to meet up (only meet in public places, for safety reasons)
5. Spend some time at a wine bar
6. Try looking at www.traveldaddy.com
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Thanks to everyone who has helped me here. I have booked the ticket. Everyone inspired me to go ahead and do it. I especially feel that I would regret it if I didn%26#39;t go. I have been wanting to go to Paris since I was 16 and I have the money so it%26#39;s time I go. I may not have a travel buddy, but I think there is something to be said about the freedom that everyone has mentioned when travelling alone. (I could spend two-three days in the Louvre and a friend may not want to do that)
Also thanks for the tour company information. I have all of them on my list and I will be setting up tours and doing everything I can during my 9 days in Paris. Now I must find a single room with a clean bathroom/shower to book for my stay. I am so excited.
Thanks for the encouragement. STACEY
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You dont know how lucky you are! Ive had some really bad vacations with untested travel companions - cant imagine going to Paris with someone else who isnt a lover! A friend wants me to go with her for her first trip (she%26#39;s petrified to go anywhere alone) and I just cant do it.
Keep in mind the majority of adults in Paris are single. Dont hesitate to go alone to great restaurants. No one knows you anyway - and waiters will flirt and take care of you.
As for whether Paris is more dangerous than NYC - sorry, but I just dont buy it. We have more domestic violence here - they have more skilled pickpockets. Just be as careful on the metro as you would be in a packed subway and you should be fine. And dont feel bad being rude to people around the major tourist zones who ask you if you speak English or spot fake golden rings at your feet.
Since you have until October, I would pick up a CD or download a basic French course. You only need to know the basics but its good to make the attempt.